User talk:Trialpears

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I doubt anyone cares but I might as well share in case anyone wonder. I've been struggling with depression for over a year now and find it difficult to care about Wikipedia anymore. You will likely see more of me again some day and I usually read things posted here or in my pings eventually. If you want to contact me it doesn't hurt to try, but don't expect a timely response. -- Trialpears (talk) 08:17, 14 June 2024 (UTC)

Just glad to see your name pop up on my feed; we'll still be here if and when you decide to return. Primefac (talk) 00:20, 15 June 2024 (UTC)

Likewise. Sorry to hear you're going through a rough patch. You're always welcomed around here. Headbomb {t · c · p · b} 00:45, 15 June 2024 (UTC)

Take care of yourself, and ask for help when you need it. I hope to see your valuable contributions back here when you are ready. – Jonesey95 (talk) 17:47, 15 June 2024 (UTC)

Hope things get easier. Your well-being comes way ahead of anything on here. Take care, Rjjⁱⁱⁱ (talk) 08:35, 4 July 2024 (UTC)

Nothing much new to report here really. Guess I might be on my way towards a recovery but who knows. At least I have a fair chance of passing my first exam in a year and a half next week. I still love the project a lot but don't have the energy to do much and Wikipedia is low priority. I've learned so much from all you guys and grew a ton as a person from helping out here. I hope that to return one day but that day definitely isn't here yet. God I'm tearing up. Trialpears (talk) 11:13, 12 January 2025 (UTC)

Hey Trialpears, I remember the first year you joined and you did a great job of implementing automatic short descriptions for {{Infobox school}} which is how I met you. I also want to echo the comments of Primefac, Headbomb, Jonesey95, and Rjjiii; I too was glad to see your name pop up on my feed, I remember when you had sort of like vanished and I thought to myself what happened to Trialpears, I thought maybe you took a short break or something (speaking of breaks, I took a hiatus lately as life had gotten in the way), but I remember the interactions we had with each other. It was awesome to see you become an administrator; your willingness to engage in discussions, overall friendliness, and you are an easy person to get along with, if anything well deserved,

Depression is a horrible thing, it's not easy, various things factor into the depression and it can take a toll on your life, but no matter what, don't give up Trialpears, we just have to keep going, look after yourself, and I'm hoping the recovery is coming along okay. I hope the first exam went well and if not, can always try again right, and I too hope to see your valuable contributions back here when you are ready, thanks for being awesome and keep being you! :) Steven (Editor) (talk) 06:38, 11 March 2026 (UTC)

Thank you, it's heart warming reading your message. Progress is painfully slow but at least it's largely going in the right direction. Trialpears (talk) 12:01, 13 March 2026 (UTC)

You closed this specifically finding that WP:NOTSOCIAL was not a sufficient argument for deletion; would you also say that there was consensus that this was no redundant under WP:DEL#10 and WP:TOPPOST (bullet point 2)? If so, could you clarify that in your close; if not, would it be okay for me to start a new TfD with those rationales instead? — Qwerfjkltalk 09:13, 15 January 2026 (UTC)

@Qwerfjkl I checked WP:TOPPOST while closing since it was mentioned in the discussion and at most I think it's a weak point like the other two. What is excessive is highly subjective and it's clear that most participants in this discussion didn't consider it excessive. The situation is similar with the useless and redundant language in the deletion policy. Participants had reasonable objections to that characterization and it's not my role to decide that it is. I can not give vastly more weight to the minority view on this flimsy policy basis. I don't think it's appropriate to renominate these templates soon when the situation hasn't changed just like with any other discussion closed as keep. Trialpears (talk) 10:59, 15 January 2026 (UTC)

Categories you have created have been nominated for possible deletion, merging, or renaming. A discussion is taking place to decide whether this proposal complies with the categorization guidelines. If you would like to participate in the discussion, you are invited to add your comments at Wikipedia:Categories for discussion/Log/2026 January 25 § Articles currently being merged on the categories for discussion page. Thank you. FaviFake (talk) 08:06, 25 January 2026 (UTC)