Adela Orpen

Adela Orpen was born Adela Elizabeth Richards on 3 February 1855, on a slave plantation in Virginia, United States.^[2] She was the only surviving child of Edward Moore Richards and his wife, Sarah Elizabeth (née Tisdale).

When her mother died on 19 February 1860 and following the death of her two siblings, she and her father moved to Kansas in 1862. This move was partly motivated by Kansas' incorporation into the federal union, as her father opposed slavery, and by the fact that the land he purchased was likely to be near the new route of the Santa Fé railway. Here, Orpen, her father, and her guardian, Adelia Sarah Gates, fully engaged in the frontier lifestyle, building a simple frame house, and managing horses and cattle.

While her father fought on the union side of the American Civil War, Orpen took on many of the responsibility for their land, even planning their evacuation if confederate side advanced. This childhood spent in isolation, with much required of her to survive on the frontier, is seen as having a strong influence on her life, and made her relationship with her father very close. She noted later on that he was: "Father, mother, playmate, friend … during those Kansas years … and the influence of his training has remained strong throughout my life."^[1][3]

Orpen moved to Ireland in 1867, following her father's inheritance of the family estate Grange estate in Killanne, County Wexford. This was a result of the death of her father's older brother, John Francis Richards. Her paternal grandmother was still living there. Once again Orpen and her father were accompanied by Gates, who she called "Mamma", and Orpen spent the rest of her youth at Grange Demesne, later renamed Monksgrange House by her father. Her life in Ireland was more conventional than that of the United States, but her father maintained unusual interests. He took part in the campaign for women's dress reform as well as women's rights more generally, and provided his daughter was a stimulating environment to grow up in. The onset of the Land War in the 1870s saw their lives change significantly, both economically and politically. These changes saw both Orpen and her father change their political allegiances from liberal nationalism to supporting the British Conservative party.^[1]

It was the economic difficulties that arose from the withholding of rents that delayed her marriage to her first cousin once removed, Goddard Henry Orpen. Her father also resisted the marriage as he thought Goddard was financially inadequate, as he was only at the beginning of his career as a London barrister. They eventually married on 18 August 1880 at St. Peter's Church, Aungier Street, Dublin. Her husband described their marriage as "a perfect union."^[1]