Townshend was born in Waxham in 1573 and was baptised on 7 August. Her parents were Anne (born Gresham) and Sir Nathaniel Bacon MP. Her formal education was at a boarding school in Dickleborough and she married in December 1593 Sir John Townshend.[1] The marriage had been negotiated by her father and the agreement was that the couple would inherit her father's land in Stiffkey, Langham, and Morston. It was a difficult marriage as her husband frequently rowed with people. Their son and heir, Sir Roger Townshend, 1st Baronet, was born in Melton Constable.[2]
Her husband died in 1603 from his wounds after taking part in a duel where he had killed his opponent. Anne recorded that had he lived then he may have moved abroad and left her without an income.[2]