Betty Halff-Epstein

Betty Epstein grew up in a middle-class household in Zurich with her 14-month older brother Max and her nine-year younger sister Ruth. The family was Jewish Orthodox.

After completing compulsory school in 1920, Epstein began an education at the commercial school in Zurich. In 1923 she spent a year in Versailles to learn French and how to run a household as part of her training to become a grande dame. During this time, she was actively involved in French art, music, theatre and literature. She was not allowed to study and had to bow to her parents' wishes to be able to run a large household and to move in style on the social stage.

In 1926, the 21-year-old Epstein married Gérard Halff (1889–1939), fifteen years her senior, a businessman and owner of the chemical raw materials company Gerhard Halff AG. The marriage was arranged by a matchmaker. With the marriage came the move to Basel, where they lived for the rest of their lives.

In 1927 their first daughter Marlise was born (later Marlise Staehelin^[1]). Three years later, in 1930, their second daughter Lily-Anne followed. At this time, the Halff-Epstein couple also commissioned various architects to build a new house for the family, including the well-known Swiss architect Otto Rudolf Salvisberg.^[2]

At the beginning of the Second World War, Gérard Halff died at the age of 50. While he was in hospital, he instructed his wife in all aspects of running the business. Halff-Epstein took over the management from her late husband against the will of her in-laws and prevailed against her husband's former business partner who wanted to hand over the clientele to his recently founded company. The takeover of the company took place under difficult conditions: During the post-war period, Halff-Epstein had to convince business partners of her abilities as a managing director on numerous business trips to France, Belgium and England. Through this fundamental work, Halff-Epstein helped the company to boom in the 1950s and 1960s.

Due to the tense political situation in Europe, Halff-Epstein wanted to emigrate to the United States, where she had relatives, after the death of her husband. With the help of a lively correspondence between the American embassy in Germany and the American consulate in Zurich, as well as affidavits from her circle of friends and family in the US, she obtained a visa. However, her daughters, especially the elder Marlise, successfully resisted emigration. Halff-Epstein spent most of the war period in Basel. Her daughters stayed in Geneva with Betty's sister Ruth during the war.

Throughout the Nazi era, Betty Halff-Epstein and her brother Max Epstein helped Jewish friends and relatives abroad. Before the war began, the help focused on their uncle and cousin in Freiburg im Breisgau (DE). Max Epstein in particular tried to make it possible for his cousin and his family to emigrate to the US. The uncle was deported to the Camp de Gurs (FR), which he survived. For many friends and acquaintances, Halff-Epstein wrote to her contacts in the US to procure affidavits, but not always successfully.

Throughout the war, Halff-Epstein worried about her friends and relatives abroad who did not seek safety - often with fatal results. For example, one of her cousins, who had spent part of the war in Basel, travelled back to Belgium to be with her daughter. Her cousin Richard Guggenheim, who was in a preparatory camp for emigration to Palestine, was also a victim of Nazi atrocities. Other relatives exposed themselves strongly through public anti-fascist statements and thus exposed themselves to great danger. The flat in Basel was always open during this time for needy people and relatives who needed shelter. In 1943 Halff-Epstein took responsibility for her cousin Hans Guggenheim, who was sent to a Swiss labour camp in the same year. In June 1946, she finally took over guardianship of Hans Guggenheim.

In 1944, her brother Max Epstein died. His death was a great shock to the Halff-Epstein family. Max Epstein had been a great support to his sister Betty after the death of Gérard Halff and a kind of a foster father to his two nieces Marlise and Lily-Anne. Max Epstein's role was taken over after the war by her cousin Manfred Guggenheim, who lived in Berlin before the war. He managed to emigrate to the USA via Cuba and came back to Europe with the allied invasion.

The war robbed Halff-Epstein of her faith in God and she felt less committed to religious traditions. After the war ended, she toyed with the idea of emigrating to Palestine or marrying a Christian man so that her daughters would never meet the same fate as the victims of the Shoah.