Deal With It!

Named after "Deal With It", one of the sections on daily life on Gurl.com,^[8]: 154 the book of the same name is divided into four sections: "Body", which discusses body image, nutrition, and exercise; "Sexuality", which discusses sexual health and the emotional and societal issues involved; "Brain", which discusses emotional struggles such as eating disorders, underachieving, and suicidal tendencies; and "Life", which discusses relationships with family, popularity, and romance.^[7][9] Each of the four sections included subsections such as "What's Up Down There," "Those Sucky Emotions," and "Understanding STDs."^[7] The book offers advice on teen-related concerns such as puberty, queer identities, sex, eating disorders, drug use, and mental health,^[10] based on information screened by experts.^[6] Each topic also includes a list of resources.^[10] The book also uses the same humorous yet informative tone found on the website.^[11] While the authors included their own commentary on each topic,^[6] chat conversations from users on Gurl.com were also included with the text.^[10][11]

Deal With It! presents information in the same format used on Gurl.com, with "cartoon" icons and bold colors used as the book's illustrations.^[6] Odes was in charge of the art direction of the book, with Georgia Rucker in charge of design.^[12] The book was put together using Adobe Illustrator, QuarkXPress, Flash, and Streamline.^[12] Similar to the website, the authors opted to use illustrations of women instead of photos to avoid issues with body image.^[2] The cover of the book shows the back of a girl opening her trenchcoat, and the other side of the cover reveals she is wearing a bra and panties underneath.^[6]

To promote Deal With It!, Odes, Drill, and McDonald launched an accompanying website, DealWithIt.com, including an online version of the resources.^[13] It was published by Pocket Books and released on September 1, 1999,^[1] with a retail price of US$15.^[14] The book was later released in the United Kingdom in 2001.^[15]

Women's Wear Daily described the book as "witty" and that it carries a "non-judgmental and upbeat tone."^[13] Natalie Angier from The New York Times described Deal With It! as "funny", with "bold colors, cartoon icons and choppy text blocks."^[6] While Deal With It! was praised for being frank and nonjudgmental, editors at The New York Times and Los Angeles Times, and Publishers Weekly also warned that some topics may not be appropriate for its target audience,^[6][16] nor a conservative audience.^[10] Jennifer Howard from The Washington Post found the "Life" section of the book the most ambitious and described the book as a way to help girls look after themselves.^[9] John Malam from The Guardian found the book commendable, describing it to have advice that empowers its readers instead of lecturing them.^[15]

Jane Gordon wrote in the Hartford Courant that a parent had expressed disgust with the book and suggested that topics about sex should be discussed between parents and their children; however, the authors noted that teenagers preferred the book, as they find it embarrassing to discuss sex with their parents.^[17] Psychiatrist Miriam Grossman included Deal With It! in her criticisms of sex education, calling the book "offensive material" for including information such as BDSM.^[18]: 5 The book was also met with opposition by The Library Patrons of Texas and Parents Protecting the Minds of Children from Arkansas for including LGBT content.^[19] In 2009, the West Bend Citizens for Safe Libraries challenged to ban the book from West Bend Community Library, claiming it to be "pornography."^[20] Deal With It! is listed at #82 on the American Library Association's Top 100 Banned/Challenged Books from 2000 to 2009.^[21]

Deal With It! became a national bestseller,^[22] selling 100,000 copies in the United States by January 2000.^[23] By March 2000, the book sold 500,000 copies.^[17] In July 2000, Deal With It! was awarded the I.D. Magazine Award in the Graphics category.^[12]