Assuming an instantaneous response we can consider the second order polarisation to be given by
for
the applied field onto a nonlinear medium.
For a lossless medium with spatial indices
we already have full permutation symmetry, where the spatial indices and frequencies are permuted simultaneously according to

In the regime where all frequencies
for resonance
then this response must be independent of the applied frequencies, i.e. the susceptibility should be dispersionless, and so we can permute the spatial indices without also permuting the frequency arguments:

This is the Kleinman symmetry condition.