Simchas and Sorrows

Agnes is a struggling actress living in Brooklyn who was raised Catholic and is now an atheist. She has just learned she is pregnant. Before she has had a chance to tell her boyfriend Levi, he proposes; she accepts and immediately tells him of her pregnancy.

Levi is very close to his Jewish family who are ecstatic about the prospect of the marriage and child. Agnes is asked to convert to Judaism in order to appease Levi's family and maintain their traditions. Being an atheist, she struggles with the decision but decides to give it a try. She attends classes led by Rabbi Cohen, a progressive and open-minded rabbi who teaches Judaism to people from diverse backgrounds. Meanwhile, Levi's conservative brother, Abe, and his non-Jewish fiancée, Glaucia, constantly challenge and belittle Agnes and Levi's choices, creating a tense and competitive atmosphere.

Amidst the conflicts and pressures from their respective families, Agnes remains steadfast in her own values and self-assuredness. She draws strength from her eccentric grandfather, Nate, who supports her unconditionally and encourages her to stay true to herself. Agnes's unwavering belief that love, not belief, should be the foundation of her conversion resonates throughout the narrative. As Agnes and Levi face philosophical debates, including the contentious issue of having a Christmas tree, their relationship is put to the test. Levi's insecurities and lack of support strain their bond, leading them to question whether they should proceed with the marriage and conversion. Ultimately, their journey becomes an exploration of personal growth, self-discovery, and the power of staying true to one's convictions.

Simchas and Sorrows was written and directed by Genevieve Adams.^[1] The film is Adams's directorial debut and the script is partly inspired by Adams's own life and marriage.^[2][3] She says of making the film:

Simchas and Sorrows is a labor of love [...] I saw a film when I was in the fifth grade called Keeping the Faith and it really inspired me then and now. Ben Stiller plays a rabbi and Ed Norton is his best friend, a Catholic priest. They reconnect with a friend from childhood, played brilliantly by Jenna Elfman, who challenges them to question their faith. I thought it was such a funny, beautiful and heartfelt story about real people grappling with life's unanswerable questions. It was one of those experiences in the movie theater where I was truly moved and thought, 'I want to do that. I want to tell stories like that and make people laugh and think.' Comedy is hard to do, and just because the story may seem 'light' or rom-com-y, doesn't mean it's less hard hitting [...] So, the goal with Simchas and Sorrows was to get at some serious dilemmas through a comedic lens.^[3]

Adams was also a producer on the film^[4] with Term Paper Productions and Ataria Pictures. Filming took place in New York City.^[5] The music for the film was scored by Esin Aydingoz.^[6]

Simchas and Sorrows premiered at the virtual showcase "Cinejoy" – part of the Cinequest Film & Creativity Festival held on April 1–17, 2022, in San Jose, California.^[2] In July 2022, Gravitas Ventures acquired the North American distribution rights for the film in a deal negotiated by Glen Reynolds from Circus Road Films.^[7]