Thomas was probably born at Castle Matrix, near Rathkeale, the fifth but only surviving son of Edmund Southwell and his wife Catherine Herbert. His father is called "Southwell of Castle Matrix".[2] His grandfather, John Southwell of Barham, had come to Ireland from Suffolk during the reign of James I. His mother was a rich heiress, the only child of Garrett Herbert of Rathkeale.
| Family tree |
| Thomas Southwell with his wife, parents, and other selected relatives.[a] |
| | | | | John Southwell of Barham | | Garret Herbert of Rathkeale |
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| | | | | Edmund Southwell | | Catherine Herbert heiress | | |
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John Southwell d. 1642 | | Ann Dowdall | | Thomas Southwell 1st Baronet d. 1681 | | Elizabeth Starkey d. 1705 | | | |
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| | | | | | | Richard Southwell d.v.p.* MP | | Elizabeth O'Brien d. 1688 | | |
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| | | | Thomas Southwell 1st Baron 1665–1720 | | Meliora Coningsby | | William Southwell 1669–1720 soldier | | |
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| Thomas listed among his brothers |
He was the youngest of five brothers:
- John (died 1642), married Anne Dowdall, daughter of Elizabeth Dowdall[4]
- William (died 1627), was killed at the Siege of Saint-Martin-de-Ré.[5]
- Ralph (died 1627), was killed on the same occasion as William[5]
- Edward, murdered in Holland[6]
- Thomas (died 1680)
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Nothing seems to be known of the sisters he probably had.