User:Rusalkii/Dating
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Main article: Dating
Related articles: Online dating, Courtship, First date, Going steady, Romance (love), Treating (dating)
Articles we do not have: Date (disambig page, points to Dating), Romantic relationship (redirects to Romance)
Scope issues - I'd like some sources for different meanings of "dating".
- "going on dates"
- "being in a committed relationship but not married or engaged"
- "the informal pre-marriage courtship rituals of a society"
- there's the two meanings in the article as it stands
- "going on a date"
Source dump
Overview
Fisher, Helen E (1992). Anatomy of Love: The Natural History of Monogamy, Adultery, and Divorce. W. W. Norton. ISBN 0393034232. seems to have a global perspective? by an anthropologist. I am not sure how much this is actually talking about dating (one chapter, out of 16, is on courtship)(User:D Kirlston read the chapter on courtship, nothing on dating)- Mogilski, Justin K (2023). The Oxford Handbook of Evolutionary Psychology and Romantic Relationships. Oxford University Press. ISBN 9780197524718.: kind of source that talks about "human mating strategy" and "intrasexual mating competition" about humans.
- Whyte, Martin King (1990). Dating, mating, and marriage. Social institutions and social change. New York: Aldine de Gruyter. ISBN 978-0-202-30415-1. US-focused. by a sociologist. Mostly a report on one survey this guy did on women in Detroit.
- Hill, Charles T. (2019-06-20). Intimate Relationships across Cultures: A Comparative Study. Cambridge University Press. ISBN 978-1-107-19662-9., reports on longitudinal study
- Modern Romance: An Investigation Ansari, Aziz; Klinenberg, Eric (2016-06-14). Modern Romance. Penguin. ISBN 978-0-14-310925-9.
- Vangelisti, Anita L.; Perlman, Daniel, eds. (2018). The Cambridge Handbook of Personal Relationships. Cambridge Handbooks in Psychology (2 ed.). Cambridge: Cambridge University Press. ISBN 978-1-107-13026-5.
- Chapter "From Courtship to Universal Properties: Research on Dating and Mate Selection, 1950 to 2003" is a review of how the research has changed over time; has a very interesting table of topics in the research that could be leaned on for structure + review of "marriage markets and union formation, cohabitation, evolutionary approaches, social exchange and related theories, and romantic attachment."
- Chapter "Personal Relationships in Adolescence and Early Adulthood", subsection Romantic Relationships has several useful bits
- Chapter "“His” and “Her” Relationships? A Review of the Empirical Evidence" reviews difference between men and women's experiences in romantic relationships, not primarily focused on dating but there's a section on mate choice
- To review: "Personality and Relationships: A Temperament Perspective", "Attachment Theory, Individual Psychodynamics, and Relationship Functioning", the entire "BASIC PROCESSES" and "INTERACTIVE PROCESSES" section, "Stress in Couples: The Process of Dyadic Coping", "Temptations and Threat: Extradyadic Relations and Jealousy", "Relationship Satisfaction"
- "The Oxford Handbook of Close Relationships". global.oup.com. Retrieved 2025-04-18. toc is not promising
- "Intimate Relationships". wwnorton.com. Retrieved 2025-04-18. toc is not promising but it would be so weird for a book like this to not talk about dating?
History
- Weigel, Moira (2017-08-22). Labor of Love: The Invention of Dating. Farrar, Straus and Giroux. ISBN 978-0-374-53695-4. very chattily written, author is a prof of literature, [https://complit.fas.harvard.edu/people/moira-weigel/]
- Bailey, Beth L. (1988). From front porch to back seat : courtship in twentieth-century America. Internet Archive. Baltimore : Johns Hopkins University Press. ISBN 978-0-8018-3609-1.
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- Bailey, Beth (2004). "From Front Porch to Back Seat: A History of the Date". OAH Magazine of History. 18 (4): 23–26. ISSN 0882-228X.
- Bailey, Beth (2004). "From Front Porch to Back Seat: A History of the Date". OAH Magazine of History. 18 (4): 23–26. ISSN 0882-228X.
Dating apps/online
- Blue, Shawn (2020-01-17). The Psychology of Modern Dating: Websites, Apps, and Relationships. Rowman & Littlefield. ISBN 978-1-4985-9604-6.
- Wu, Shangwei; Trottier, Daniel (2022-06-01). "Dating Apps: A Literature Review". Annals of the International Communication Association. 46 (2): 91–115. doi:10.1080/23808985.2022.2069046. ISSN 2380-8985.
- Beasley, Chris; Holmes, Mary (2023-01-09). Internet Dating: Intimacy and Social Change. Taylor & Francis Group. ISBN 978-0-367-75393-1. "include consideration of daters in Africa, Scandinavia, South America, Asia and the Middle East"
- Phan, Anh; Seigfried-Spellar, Kathryn; Choo, Kim-Kwang Raymond (2021-01-01). "Threaten me softly: A review of potential dating app risks". Computers in Human Behavior Reports. 3: 100055. doi:10.1016/j.chbr.2021.100055. ISSN 2451-9588.
{{cite journal}}: CS1 maint: article number as page number (link) - Vogels, Emily A; McClain, Colleen (February 2, 2023). Key findings about online dating in the U.S. (PDF) (Report). Pew Research Center.
- Toma, Catalina L. (2022-08-01). "Online dating and psychological wellbeing: A social compensation perspective". Current Opinion in Psychology. 46: 101331. doi:10.1016/j.copsyc.2022.101331. ISSN 2352-250X.
{{cite journal}}: CS1 maint: article number as page number (link) lit review: people with various issues with in person dating are more likely to gravitate to online dating - Filice, Eric; Abeywickrama, Kavishka D.; Parry, Diana C.; Johnson, Corey W. (2022-11-01). "Sexual violence and abuse in online dating: A scoping review". Aggression and Violent Behavior. 67: 101781. doi:10.1016/j.avb.2022.101781. ISSN 1359-1789.
{{cite journal}}: CS1 maint: article number as page number (link) map of literature on online dating violence - Bergström, Marie (2021-12-21). The New Laws of Love: Online Dating and the Privatization of Intimacy. John Wiley & Sons. ISBN 978-1-5095-4353-3. Peer reviewed book. looks like it has a good chapter on "History of matchmaking" + online dating, gendered patterns, age, class. Western-focused but at least seems to have European information as well as US. Mostly focused on her own data, not a lit review, but it's a broad sample type thing. "Book outline" lays out the structure and theses.
- *Wiederhold, Brenda K. (2021-07). "How COVID Has Changed Online Dating—And What Lies Ahead". Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking. 24 (7): 435–436. doi:10.1089/cyber.2021.29219.editorial. ISSN 2152-2715.
{{cite journal}}: Check date values in:|date=(help) lit review: "personality correlates such as neuroticism, sociability, sensation-seeking, and sexual permissiveness are related to greater use of online dating services. Sex-search and self-esteem enhancement are predictors of problematic use of online dating" - Klimenko, German A. (2024-07-22). "Review of the Scientific Literature on the Topic of Online Dating Services in a Demographic and Social Context". Population and Economics. 8 (2): 19–35. doi:10.3897/popecon.8.e104663. ISSN 2658-3798.
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- Liew, Tze Wei; and Lee, Yi Yong (2023-12-31). "Love is in the cloud: Uncovering the factors driving continuous use intention of online dating applications". Cogent Social Sciences. 9 (1): 2232110. doi:10.1080/23311886.2023.2232110.
{{cite journal}}:|first2=missing|last2=(help);|first3=missing|last3=(help);|first4=missing|last4=(help)CS1 maint: article number as page number (link) CS1 maint: multiple names: authors list (link) Single study but from Malaysia. "social influence, price value, and habit as significant drivers to continuous use intention of online dating applications. Habit has the strongest effect on the intention to use online dating applications continuously" - Menon, Devadas (2024-02-15). "The Bumble motivations framework- exploring a dating App's uses by emerging adults in India". Heliyon. 10 (3). doi:10.1016/j.heliyon.2024.e24819. ISSN 2405-8440. PMID 38317995.
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Violence
- Exner-Cortens, Deinera; Baker, Elizabeth; Craig, Wendy (2021-09-01). "The National Prevalence of Adolescent Dating Violence in Canada". Journal of Adolescent Health. 69 (3): 495–502. doi:10.1016/j.jadohealth.2021.01.032. ISSN 1054-139X. Big data survey, not lit review. tldr: "We found that over one in three Canadian youth who had dated experienced and/or used ADV in the past 12 months"
- Wolfe, David; Temple, Jeff R. (2018-06-14). Adolescent Dating Violence: Theory, Research, and Prevention. Academic Press. ISBN 978-0-12-811885-6.
- Portolan, Lisa (2022-12-02). Love, Intimacy and Online Dating: How a Global Pandemic Redefined Romantic Relationships. Taylor & Francis. ISBN 978-1-000-78809-9.
- Tomaszewska, Paulina; Schuster, Isabell (2021). "Prevalence of teen dating violence in Europe: A systematic review of studies since 2010". New Directions for Child and Adolescent Development. 2021 (178): 11–37. doi:10.1002/cad.20437. ISSN 1534-8687. Lit review (...mostly in Spain, because apparently that's where the studies are??)
- Reyes, H. Luz McNaughton; Graham, Laurie M.; Chen, May S.; Baron, Deborah; Gibbs, Andrew; Groves, Alison K.; Kajula, Lusajo; Bowler, Sarah; Maman, Suzanne (2021-03-01). "Adolescent dating violence prevention programmes: a global systematic review of evaluation studies". The Lancet Child & Adolescent Health. 5 (3): 223–232. doi:10.1016/S2352-4642(20)30276-5. ISSN 2352-4642. PMID 33220790.
- Piolanti, Antonio; Foran, Heather M. (2022-02-01). "Efficacy of Interventions to Prevent Physical and Sexual Dating Violence Among Adolescents: A Systematic Review and Meta-analysis". JAMA Pediatrics. 176 (2): 142–149. doi:10.1001/jamapediatrics.2021.4829. ISSN 2168-6203. lit review: "the implementation of interventions targeting dating violence among adolescents was associated with a significant reduction in overall physical and sexual violence. However, when examined as separate outcomes, a significant reduction was found for physical violence only"
- Piolanti, Antonio; Waller, Franziska; Schmid, Iason E.; Foran, Heather M. (2023-05-02). "Long-term Adverse Outcomes Associated With Teen Dating Violence: A Systematic Review". Pediatrics. 151 (6): e2022059654. doi:10.1542/peds.2022-059654. ISSN 0031-4005. lit review: TDV is bad for you, causes future violence
- Price, Myeshia N.; Green, Amy E.; DeChants, Jonah P.; Davis, Carrie K. (2023-08-01). "Physical Dating Violence Victimization among LGBTQ Youth: Disclosure and Association with Mental Health". Journal of Interpersonal Violence. 38 (15–16): 9059–9085. doi:10.1177/08862605231162655. ISSN 0886-2605. online survey data: "11% of LGBTQ youth who were in a relationship in the past year experienced physical dating violence victimization"
- Medina-Maldonado, Venus; del Mar Pastor-Bravo, María; Vargas, Elka; Francisco, Judith; Ruiz, Ismael Jiménez (2022-09-01). "Adolescent Dating Violence: Results of a Mixed Study in Quito, Ecuador". Journal of Interpersonal Violence. 37 (17–18): NP15205–NP15230. doi:10.1177/08862605211001471. ISSN 0886-2605. survey + focus group. meh
- "APA PsycNet". psycnet.apa.org. Archived from the original on 2024-04-24. Retrieved 2025-04-15. lit review: dating violence is bad for you
- report from Australia. "The current study surveyed 9,987 dating app or website users in Australia to explore the prevalence and nature of dating app facilitated sexual violence (DAFSV) victimisation within the sample. Findings revealed that three-quarters of users were subjected to online DAFSV, and a third were subjected to in-person DAFSV, perpetrated by someone they met on a dating app or website. Users often experienced repeat victimisation. DAFSV victimisation was particularly common among LGB+ communities. "
- Rodríguez-deArriba, María-Luisa; Santos, Cristiana; Cunha, Olga; Sánchez-Jiménez, Virginia; Caridade, Sónia (2024-07-01). "Relationship between cyber and in-person dating abuse: A systematic review". Aggression and Violent Behavior. 77: 101943. doi:10.1016/j.avb.2024.101943. ISSN 1359-1789.
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Subgroups
- Jiménez-Muro, Adriana; Ramos-Villagrasa, Pedro J.; Castro, Ángel (2024-10-01). "Dating app users: Differences between middle-aged men and women". International Journal of Clinical and Health Psychology. 24 (4): 100505. doi:10.1016/j.ijchp.2024.100505. ISSN 1697-2600.
{{cite journal}}: CS1 maint: article number as page number (link) Spain. Online survey. "Regular and intense use of dating apps was found in middle-aged people. Compared to women, men use more dating apps, have used them for a longer time, use them to a greater extent for casual sex, and for more time per day"
Race
- Curington, Celeste Vaughan; Lundquist, Jennifer Hickes; Lin, Ken-Hou (2021-02-09). The Dating Divide: Race and Desire in the Era of Online Romance. Univ of California Press. ISBN 978-0-520-29344-1. US-focused. Has a historical overview
- Stacey, Lawrence; and Forbes, TehQuin D. (2022-03-24). "Feeling Like a Fetish: Racialized Feelings, Fetishization, and the Contours of Sexual Racism on Gay Dating Apps". The Journal of Sex Research. 59 (3): 372–384. doi:10.1080/00224499.2021.1979455. ISSN 0022-4499. PMID 34550047. qualitative analysis of men on gay dating apps: "men of color described feeling: (1) objectified; (2) that it hindered the formation of platonic or intimate connections; and (3) boxed in and minimized to a stereotype"
- Williams, Apryl (2024-02-06). Not My Type: Automating Sexual Racism in Online Dating. Stanford University Press. ISBN 978-1-5036-3761-0. race in the US
- Ma, Zilin; Gajos, Krzysztof Z. (2022-04-29). "Not Just a Preference: Reducing Biased Decision-making on Dating Websites". Proceedings of the 2022 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems. CHI '22. New York, NY, USA: Association for Computing Machinery: 1–14. doi:10.1145/3491102.3517587. ISBN 978-1-4503-9157-3. one study. picture-first is more racist than profile-first
- Carlson, Bronwyn; Day, Madi (2021), Powell, Anastasia; Flynn, Asher; Sugiura, Lisa (eds.), "Love, Hate and Sovereign Bodies: The Exigencies of Aboriginal Online Dating", The Palgrave Handbook of Gendered Violence and Technology, Cham: Springer International Publishing, pp. 181–201, doi:10.1007/978-3-030-83734-1_10, ISBN 978-3-030-83734-1, retrieved 2025-04-15
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LGTBTQ
- Griffiths, Daniel A.; and Armstrong, Heather L. (2024-01-02). ""They Were Talking to an Idea They Had About Me": A Qualitative Analysis of Transgender Individuals' Experiences Using Dating Apps". The Journal of Sex Research. 61 (1): 119–132. doi:10.1080/00224499.2023.2176422. ISSN 0022-4499. PMID 36799719. small n interview analysis
- Byron, Paul; Albury, Kath; Pym, Tinonee (2021-04-01). "Hooking up with friends: LGBTQ+ young people, dating apps, friendship and safety". Media, Culture & Society. 43 (3): 497–514. doi:10.1177/0163443720972312. ISSN 0163-4437. qualitative analysis of ... "drawing on LGBTQ+ young people’s accounts of negotiating safety and risk in dating/hook-up apps, in which friendship practices are significant"?
- Shepherd, Benjamin F.; Tidwell, Colin A.; Layland, Eric K.; Maki, Justin L.; Brochu, Paula M. (2024-03-14). "Beyond "not my type": A quantitative examination of intraminority stigma among gay men who use dating apps". Psychology of Sexual Orientation and Gender Diversity. doi:10.1037/sgd0000715. ISSN 2329-0390. one study only. "More frequent dating app use was associated with more frequent experiences of intraminority stress across the constructs of age stigma, socioeconomic stigma, racial/ethnic stigma, and body stigma but not gay nonconformity stigma or gender expression stigma. More frequent dating app use was associated with more intraminority racial/ethnic stigma among gay men of color relative to White gay men and more intraminority age stigma among older gay men relative to younger gay men."
- Zhao, Longxuan; Liu, Jiacheng; Li, Zhanghao (2022-04-10). "Online Dating Beyond Dating Apps: An Exploration of Self-Presentation of Chinese Gay Men Dating on Zhihu". International Journal of Communication. 16 (0): 19. ISSN 1932-8036. analysis of presentation + interviews. "Three themes are identified: stratified privacy concerns, separating ideal audiences, and quantity matters. The findings suggest the emergence of a polymedia environment of online dating beyond dating apps and, through these Chinese gay men’s dating practices, an alternative queer space has formed on an open platform."
- Garthe, Rachel C.; Kaur, Amandeep; Rieger, Agnes; Blackburn, Allyson M.; Kim, Shongha; Goffnett, Jacob (2021-04-01). "Dating Violence and Peer Victimization Among Male, Female, Transgender, and Gender-Expansive Youth". Pediatrics. 147 (4): e2020004317. doi:10.1542/peds.2020-004317. ISSN 0031-4005. survey in Illinois. Trans youth more at risk
- Dhoest, Alexander (2022-12-01). "Dating in Motion: Online Dating Through the Lives of Different Generations of Men Who Have Sex with Men". Sexuality & Culture. 26 (6): 1981–1999. doi:10.1007/s12119-022-09979-1. ISSN 1936-4822. PMC 9123291. PMID 35615370. Belgian, mult-generational
- Park, Seora; Lim, Hajin; Lee, Joonhwan (2024-05-11). ""Some Hope, Many Despair": Experiences of the Normalization within Online Dating among Queer Women in a Closeted Society". Proceedings of the 2024 CHI Conference on Human Factors in Computing Systems. CHI '24. New York, NY, USA: Association for Computing Machinery: 1–15. doi:10.1145/3613904.3642893. ISBN 979-8-4007-0330-0. Interview in South Korea
Misc
- Finkel, Eli J.; Eastwick, Paul W. (2008-06-01). "Speed-Dating". Current Directions in Psychological Science. 17 (3): 193–197. doi:10.1111/j.1467-8721.2008.00573.x. ISSN 0963-7214.
- Gunnarsson, Lena; Strid, Sofia (2023-11-01). "Varieties of Sugar Dating in Sweden: Content, Compensation, Motivations". Social Problems. 70 (4): 1044–1062. doi:10.1093/socpro/spab063. ISSN 0037-7791.
- Baxter, Alexander; Maxwell, Jessica A.; Bales, Karen L.; Finkel, Eli J.; Impett, Emily A.; Eastwick, Paul W. (2022-11-08). "Initial impressions of compatibility and mate value predict later dating and romantic interest". Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences. 119 (45): e2206925119. doi:10.1073/pnas.2206925119. PMC 9659375. PMID 36322750.
{{cite journal}}: CS1 maint: article number as page number (link) n=3 lit review, "We found that relationship effects and partner effects were the strongest predictors of later romantic desire and dating" - Lamont, Ellen (2021). "The persistence of gendered dating". Sociology Compass. 15 (11): e12933. doi:10.1111/soc4.12933. ISSN 1751-9020.
{{cite journal}}: CS1 maint: article number as page number (link) lit review: "multiple challenges to these gendered expectations around dating, including a self-development imperative and extended period of independence before marriage, hookup culture on college campuses, and online dating, have failed to sufficiently challenge these gendered scripts" - Sparks, Brandon; Zidenberg, Alexandra M.; Olver, Mark E. (2022-12-01). "Involuntary Celibacy: A Review of Incel Ideology and Experiences with Dating, Rejection, and Associated Mental Health and Emotional Sequelae". Current Psychiatry Reports. 24 (12): 731–740. doi:10.1007/s11920-022-01382-9. ISSN 1535-1645. PMC 9780135. PMID 36394688. lit review: incels have bad mental health, shock surprise.
- Sharabi, Liesel L. (2024-11-01). "Love, (un)automated: Human matchmaking in the era of online dating". Journal of Social and Personal Relationships. 41 (11): 3293–3315. doi:10.1177/02654075241264720. ISSN 0265-4075. study using data from matchmaking company. "The results showed that rather than matching according to others’ preferences, part of a matchmaker’s work is helping their clients discover, and in some cases reassess, what they desire in a mate"
- Broeker, Fabian (2023-10-01). "'We went from the anonymity of the internet into my private WhatsApp': Rituals of transition among dating app users in Berlin". New Media & Society. 25 (10): 2551–2571. doi:10.1177/14614448211029200. ISSN 1461-4448. excessively specific, but covers the sort of "how does dating actually happen rather than just stats" area that I think these other sources don't? "finds that users code the apps installed on their smartphones as hosting spheres of varying intimacy"
- Brinton, Mary C.; Mun, Eunmi; Hertog, Ekaterina (2021). "Singlehood in contemporary Japan: Rating, dating, and waiting for a good match". Demographic Research. 44: 239–276. doi:10.4054/demres.2021.44.10. ISSN 1435-9871. PMC 8171282. PMID 34093081. "Japanese women continue to highly value men’s income-earning capacity. Men, in contrast, value a partner with moderate income-earning potential. Women’s and men’s preferences for partner’s education are somewhat weaker, and women broaden their educational preference over time.". dating records from marriage agency + interviews
- Pan, Shuyi; Mou, Yi (2024). "Constructing the meaning of human–AI romantic relationships from the perspectives of users dating the social chatbot Replika". Personal Relationships. 31 (4): 1090–1112. doi:10.1111/pere.12572. ISSN 1475-6811. hell of a thing
- Anderson, Emily A. Vogels and Monica (2020-05-08). "Dating and Relationships in the Digital Age". Pew Research Center. Retrieved 2025-04-07., US focused. how does technology affect dating? social media,looking through partners phone without permission, sharing passwords, etc