Elise was introduced to the king by his stepsister Queen Elisabeth Ludovika of Prussia, who told Ludwig "She sang for us with a very beautiful voice but her face pleased me even more than her singing and I think she would be worthy of being included in your collection of beauties."[6]
In 1843, the king commissioned Joseph Karl Stieler to paint a portrait of her for the Gallery of Beauties Nymphenburg Castle.
At that time, Elise met the widowed Austrian industrialist Gustav Moriz Pacher von Theinburg in Bad Ischl, whom she married on 27 March 1845. Their first daughter Leontine Meta died after only four days. In 1847 and 1848, the children Hedwig Emilie and Friedrich "Fritz" were born, and in 1852, a daughter, Cäcilie "Cilla" Karoline Katharina was born.[7]
Elise's husband died of typhoid fever on 25 January 1852, after which Elise and her children moved to Munich.
Possibly due to the loss of her daughter in 1879, Elise fell ill for a long period of time. Although her condition improved in 1891, she died of pneumonia in 1893.[2]